We have to move forward. Time waits for none.
Like seasons, people change. However, seasons repeat each year. People may not. You never know when it'll be the last time you see someone. Is there really a way to know that you are in the good old days before leaving them? Maybe then it won't be that good. Maybe it's not the days, but the memories that make them cherishable. No matter how hard one tries, it cannot be stopped. And, sometimes a mistake is just that, a mistake. Sometimes, there is nothing to learn from it. People leave their homes, families, friends for education, work, money just to get back to nothing. It all just disappears in the end with them. The universe really didn't make any sense anyway. Confess? Not confess? Do it? Don't do it? As if it matters. So what's wrong in trying, right? As if it'll matter in the end.
You cause some situations, some created by others. You may not be able to control every one of them, but you can control your reactions in those situations. But those are the situations that can shape a person and their future. It always leaves some kind of mark. A scar. What if it never fades? Can a person return to that moment to solve it? Can one give closure to that scenario? What if one does not get a proper goodbye? What happens to both sides? Things like these can start small, and sometimes, spur an internal war with a person itself.
However, it takes horrors of war to realize what's really important. Evil, but a necessary one. I think it would be better if people figured out all of their demons and their saving grace by themselves. Such knowledge and understanding require experience. Now, I'm not saying to go on an actual war or hurt yourself. Just don't blindly follow anyone. You have to be honest with yourself, and even if you're wrong sometimes, at least you'll be wrong on your own terms and maybe learn something from them. There you go, you just experienced something. Stepping out of your comfort zone is necessary too. You can't expect people to do everything for you. Slowly but surely, you have to take a step. One step at a time.
